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RECAMFT's Online Newsletter

April 2025

This month's event - Fri. Apr. 4th! 

Coming Fri., Apr 4th!

Katy Higgins Lee, LMFT"The Neurodiversity Paradigm and Autistic and ADHDer Adults in Therapy"

  • Presented by
  • Katy Higgins Lee, LMFT
  • 3 CEs, Zoom
  • Fri., Apr 4th, 2025
  • 9 am to 12:15 pm
  • Register here 

There is an increasing need and demand for therapists to understand the Neurodiversity Paradigm and to implement neurodiversity-affirming care in practice. Increasing numbers of clients are being diagnosed and/or self-identify with Autism and/or ADHD, but most therapists have had little (or no) training in accurately identifying and supporting these clients.

This presentation will provide an overview of the Neurodiversity Paradigm and neurodiversity-affirming care, with a focus on Autism and ADHD. 

Katy Higgins Lee, LMFT  is a multiply neurodivergent therapist and clinical supervisor in private practice in Northern California. She has been in private practice for nine years and has been a supervisor at the Lomi Psychotherapy Clinic for five years. She is a CAMFT-approved Continuing Education Provider and offers trainings on neurodiversity, with a focus on Autism, ADHD, and Giftedness.  MORE....

Coming Fri., May 2nd!


"Introduction to PACT (Psychological Approach to Couples Therapy)"


Dr. Hans Stahlschmidt, PhD

Presented by

Dr. Hans Stahlschmidt, PhD

  • Fri. May 2, 2025
  • Morning, 2-3 hours likely
  • Zoom

PACT was developed by Dr. Stan Tatkin, PhD, fusing attachment theory, latest understanding of developmental neuroscience, and human arousal biology. PACT can effectively treat many challenging couples.

Dr. Stahlschmidt is the Dean of Students at the PACT Institute, and a Licensed Psychologist.  He has been collaborating with Dr. Tatkin, and using PACT in his Berkeley private practice for over a decade. He was a practicing psychologist in Germany, and upon moving to the US, obtained a doctorate from Pacifica Graduate Institute.  


Stay tuned to learn more about this very promising couples therapy. We will eblast out the event when we have all the details in the very near future. 

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Did you miss the BBS-MANDATED  3 CE Telehealth course? 

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Telehealth: Law & Ethics, Technology, and Best Practices for Connecting with Your Clients with Dr. Lisa Wenninger, PhD, LPCC, BC-TMH

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RECAMFT's Mission Statement

The purpose of RECAMFT is to promote and maintain professional competence and integrity with knowledge, innovation, compassion, humor and respect for human dignity and diversity.

We do this by providing opportunities for networking, education and community outreach.

RECAMFT's Racial and Social Justice Pledge

RECAMFT Rainbow Rings logoRECAMFT is committed to equity including addressing structural racism and systemic injustice. We endeavor to be inclusive and value individuals from all ethnicities, ages, races, sexual orientations, genders, languages, abilities, religions, citizenship statuses, and socioeconomic backgrounds into our chapter and into treatment.

We strive to advocate, educate, collaborate, and strategize for positive racial and social justice change within our membership and our community.

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President's Message:

Connections

By Emily Larkin, LMFT

RECAMFT President

Dear RECAMFT Members:

We are thrilled to share that our recent Law & Ethics event on March 7th was a huge success! It was wonderful to see so many of you in person, and it reminded us how valuable these face-to-face connections are. A huge thank you to the event committee for organizing such a fantastic event. A special shoutout to our President-Elect, Pat Hromalik, who not only orchestrated the event, but also put together the scholarship fund prizes. Your hard work and dedication truly made the event memorable!

Photo below of RECAMFT's March 7, 2025 Law & Ethics by Tara D'Orazio. 


Earlier this month, several of our board members also had the pleasure of attending Drinks with Shrinks at Aqus Café in Petaluma. It was fantastic to connect with more of our members and other clinicians from the broader community. Events like these are a great reminder of the strength and warmth within our professional network.

We also want to acknowledge some important feedback we’ve heard, both at Drinks with Shrinks and beyond. Some therapists have shared that RECAMFT has felt a bit Santa Rosa-focused in the past. Since Santa Rosa is the largest city in our county, this is understandable, but we want to assure you that we are committed to being a resource for all of our members across our chapter’s wide reach. Today, RECAMFT proudly serves therapists in Sonoma, Mendocino, Napa, and Lake counties.

We hear you, and we want you to know that we are committed to making RECAMFT more accessible to everyone. Our goal is to foster a sense of connection and support for all of our members, no matter where you are located.

Thank you for being part of this incredible community. We look forward to seeing you at future events—and as always, we welcome your ideas and feedback on how we can better serve you.

Warmly,

Emily Larkin, LMFT

President, RECAMFT.org


Emily Larkin, LMFTEmily Larkin, LMFT is the President of RECAMFT's Board of Directors. She has a private practice in Sebastopol. 

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Are you creative? Please join us for our Crafting Group!

Bring any craft you like, get on Zoom with us and visit with your colleagues while we knit, sew, paint, draw, cook, create, etc. (Note: No Crafting Circle in April.)

Join us at our next meeting:

  • Fri., May 9th, 11:30 am
  • Second Friday monthly, 11:30 am
  • Register here                    
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Call for Submissions for the May 2025 Issue of

The RECAMFT Therapist! 


May is Mental Health and BPD Awareness Month. It is also AAPI and Jewish American Heritage Month. See more here. We especially welcome submissions where awareness themes intersect with mental health. Please send your submission (500 word max) to therapy@recamft.org by the 15th.


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April Compassion Fatigue Peer Support Group Meeting

  • Fri., April 18th
  • 10:30 - 12:00pm
  • Register here.


A look at our Law & Ethics event on March 7th, 2025! 

Oxford Suites in Rohnert Park was a great spot for this event with lots of good food and fun for all! 

We are extremely grateful to our Sponsors for sponsoring our March 7th, 2025 Law & Ethics! 










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FREE to Members - Visit our On-Demand CE Video Library! 

Multiple new ONLINE offeringsFind all the latest here (including 6 CEs Law & Ethics)


Check it out! RECAMFT's On-Demand CE Library link: https://recamft.thinkific.com/

On-Demand CE Video Library - FREE to members! 

Movie camera and filmMembers - you can access recordings of our zoom events from 2024, 2023, 2022, and 2021  in our new on-demand library which has been migrated over to Thinkific (https://recamft.thinkific.com/).

NEW! RECAMFT On-Demand Programs: https://recamft.thinkific.com

NEW! RECAMFT discount codes are posted for members only here: https://www.recamft.org/member-discount-codes (requires sign-in using your RECAMFT member email/password)

NEW! Identifying and Treating Imposter Syndrome, 2 CEs with Stevon Lewis, LMFT  https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2025-02-imposter

NEW! Understanding Hoarding Disorder, 1.5 CEs with Dr. Robin Zasio, PsyD, LCSW https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2025-hoarding-ondemand

Law & Ethics: How to Write a 10-Minute Treatment Plan, 3 CEs, with Barbara Griswold, LMFT.  https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2022-law-and-ethics-treatment-plan

Law & Ethics: What Should be in Your Notes, But Probably Isn't, 3 CEs, with Barbara Griswold, LMFT. https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2022-06-15-law-ethics-progress-notes

LGBTQ+: Affirmative Family Therapy with Gender Diverse People and Their Loved Ones, 2 CEs, with Dr. Shawn Giammattei, PhD  https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2024-transgender-families

Working with Dissociative Disorders & Plural Communities, 4 CEs, with Serenity Serseción, PhD, LMFT https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2023-12-DID

LGBTQ+: How Sexuality Influences the Clinical Picture for Female Clients, 2 CEs with Dr. Jenn Kennedy, PhD, LMFT https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2024-09-06-sexuality-female-clients 

Three Underlying Beliefs That Cause Anxiety and How to Change Them, a CBT Approach, 2 CEs, with Jennifer Shannon, LMFT https://recamft.thinkific.com/courses/2024-06-3-Beliefs-Cause-Anxiety

Members can watch the video, pass the test, fill out the evaluation, and download your certificate. It's that easy! You can earn CEs for any recorded event if you didn't already earn CEs from the live event. 

Programs Committee Update

Welcome back, RECAMFT community! We are so excited to share some of the upcoming monthly CE events.


RECAMFT Zoom presentations

We are still reviewing applications for presentations to be scheduled for Fall 2025. Please submit an application if you have a presentation idea to therapy@recamft.org.

Are you interested in seeing what we have coming up? Consider microvolunteering with the Programs & Conferences Committee! Microvolunteering opportunities: screening speaker applications; providing support at in person CE events; monitoring Q&A for speakers during monthly Zoom presentations. We are especially looking for a Programs Committee Chairperson.

We look forward to another year of bringing you quality, enriching presentations which support your professional growth and development.

Gwendolyn Watson, LMFTWith gratitude,

Gwendolyn Watson, LMFT

Programs Chair

Director at Large

Programs & Conferences Committee

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We Need You! Jobs for Awesome Volunteers

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We need help with

  • Prelicensed Committee!
  • Programs Committee
  • Racial & Social Justice Committee
  • Newsletter Editor Assistant (ideally comfortable with web publishing, blogs, social media, etc.)
  • Tech 2 - Social Media Manager

Please send an email to therapy@recamft.org if you can help.     

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Scholarships, Honors and Awards

Scholarships for Pre-Licensed and

Newly Licensed Members

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We’re offering two scholarships to support our pre-licensed and newly licensed members:

  • The Joe & Pamela Ward Memorial Scholarship offers three $1,000 awards and a free RECAMFT membership. Deadline: May 17, 2025.

  • The Tzedakah Scholarship, in partnership with Therapist Development Center (TDC), offers $250 toward exam prep materials. Winners are drawn monthly through the end of 2025.

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Prelicensed Support - 3000 Hour Club

Nicolette Gottuso, LMFT

Hello to all RECAMFT clinicians, and a special welcome to all our Prelicensed members!

My name is Nicolette Gottuso. I am an LMFT and a Substance Use Counselor. I have recently joined the Board as a Director at Large and the Prelicensed Chair, 

You are welcome to contact me with your questions and concerns about the road to licensure. Please send me an email via therapy@recamft.org. I look forward to connecting with you! 

Nicolette Gottuso, M.A., LMFT, SUDCC IV-CS

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Check out RECAMFT's Library page for books authored by our members!


Have you written a book? Be sure to let us know so we can include it on our Library page. Email therapy@recamft.org




More upcoming events

Upcoming events

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RECAMFT's Listserv For All! Check it out! 


Dog with laptopOur listserv has around 400 members on it, and is active daily with great conversations, resources, offerings, in search of, books, movies, office rentals, jobs, internships, etc. You can view the home page of our listserv at https://groups.io/g/recamft.

If you are not currently enrolled in the listserv, please email therapy@recamft.org and ask to be added. You have the option of setting up your account to be 

      • Read individual emails
      • Read a digest of 12 emails
      • Or read online only

After you have been added to the listserv, you can change the way you receive the emails to any of the above choices. In Gmail the emails will appear under your Forums tab. To send an email to the listserv, simply address your email to recamft@groups.io


If you do not want to be on our listserv, you can delete your account or write to therapy@recamft.org and ask to not be a part of the listserv. But we urge you to give it a try. You are missing out on a ton of meaningful collaboration with your colleagues. We hope you will enjoy being part of our online community! 

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Advertise Jobs here!

Contact therapy@recamft.org to advertise a job. 

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Highlights from RECAMFT's Board of Directors

The Mar. 2025 Board meeting - the Board plus member Brian Crites. Photo by Dr. Laura Strom.

L-R Top: Emily Larkin, President; Dr. Laura Strom, Secretary; Cynthia Psaila, Director at Large (DAL); 

Middle: Brian Crites, LMFT; Pat Hromalik, President Elect; Dr. Jean Hayes, DAL; 

Bottom: Jessica Heaney, DAL; Gwen Watson, DAL, Programs Chair; Dr. Bob Casanova, Past President



  • President Emily Larkin welcomed Brian Crites, LMFT, again this month, a member who works with interns at SSU, and thanked him for coming.  Brian acknowledged Law & Ethics as an excellent event, and has been encouraging students to attend our events as networking opportunities. 
  • President said the April 11th Board retreat will be held in Petaluma at the offices of Cynthia Psaila in the conference room. She asked the Board to consider reimbursing the CFO's travel expenses to attend the meeting, since CAMFT reimburses their board members for travel. A motion to reimburse up to $400 of travel was unanimously approved. The CFO was not present at this meeting. 
  • The Board will hold its annual holiday party on April 13th. The earlier date was canceled due to many members being sick, or out of town. 
  • The new honorarium policy was adopted and begins 9/1/2025. 
  • President reported the new storage site now has a combination lock which she can provide to any board or committee member who needs to access it. She asked for volunteers on May 4th to clean and organize it.  
  • Our current CPA paid the large IRS penalty incurred when they filed our taxes one day late. President Elect and CFO have a lead on a new CPA. 
  • President Elect Pat Hromalik reported Law & Ethics made a small profit, thanks to the sponsors who participated. The ticket price we charged did not cover the full price of the ticket. In the future, we need to be sure the full ticket price is covered by what we charge registrants. 
  • Director at Large Gwen Watson, who is our Programs Chair, thanked the Board for passing the honorarium policy which will help guide her in her work choosing program speakers for us. 

  • Dr. Bob Casanova, Past President, spoke against having any non-clinicians on our listserv. Dr. Laura Strom removed the one non-clinician on the listserv, and will write to let him know the Board has decided only clinician members may join our listserv. It was decided the Bylaws Committee should review the language of the bylaws to see if they need to be adjusted to prevent non-clinicians from joining our events or organization. 
  • The Prelicensed Committee has a survey ready to send out to prelicensed members and non-members. 
  • The Board was asked to review the Sponsorship pages (here and here) on our website for a discussion at the April meeting. 
  • President Elect reported we made $1440 at L&E for our scholarship program. In Jan. we made $850. We needed to raise $1500 annually to continue the program (the Board contributes the other $1500 from reserves), so she is very happy with how well we did. She wants to be sure the scholarships are well advertised because we have had few applications each time, and she would like to see more. 
  • The Board discussed the success of Law & Ethics. Dr. Bob encouraged the Board to consider having a large day-long conference annually in both spring and fall. Dr. Laura said the largest event we ever held was the Suicide training in 2019 which had about 220 registrants. Previous Law & Ethics conferences had about 150+ attendees. This year's L&E had just about 100 registrants because we were limited by the size of the hotel space.  

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Featured Member Article

Where Will He Be Ten Years From Now? Introducing Brian Crites, LMFT

By Dr. Jean Hayes, PhD, LMFT, RECAMFT Director at Large

Brian Crites, LMFTWhenever one of our RECAMFT members joins us in a Board meeting, I am always curious to discover what sparked their interest. When Brian introduced himself, he stated his goal was to help more people in the community. He has a particular passion for mentoring prelicensed and newly licensed MFT therapists.

Brian is currently teaching in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at USF (Santa Rosa campus) and works at the Santa Rosa Center for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. He is certified in providing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for anxiety disorders in children, adolescents, and adults, and conducting evidenced-based treatment protocols for obsessive-compulsive disorder, body-focused repetitive behaviors, insomnia, and Tourette’s syndrome. “I am a thinker, and by using this modality of treatment over the last decade, I have seen great success with clients having significant symptom decreases, and improved quality of life.” In addition, he uses the exposure treatment model. He gave examples of this work, including a frightened client, who drove their car over the Golden Gate Bridge as many times as it took until they were able to cross the bridge without being overcome by panic and fear.

I thought of my own client, a pre-teen boy who could not walk his dog, go hiking, or on camping adventures, for fear of encountering spiders. I worked with his parents to educate him on the importance of having insects in our lives. I wondered how Brian's work using exposure would have impacted this child.

I was curious what this active and professionally engaged therapist does in his downtime and for self-care. Surprisingly, Brian responded, “I play the bass in a blue grass band, attend my 8-year old's Little League games, enjoy my other passion - reading about history, and, of course, discuss life with my wife who is a paralegal at Child Protective Services.”

“I wonder where Brian Crites, LMFT, will be in 10 years?”, I pondered. “I think I’ll be writing a chapter in a book, and creating a workbook integrating ACT and CBT”, he responded. I can imagine even more is in store for this active, professional teacher, trainer, and therapist as he continues down an expanding professional and personal path.

Dr. Jean Hayes, PhD, LMFT, has a private practice in Novato, CA. She is a Director at Large on the RECAMFT Board.    

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Ethics Roundtable

Got a sticky problem?

Come discuss it confidentially with your colleagues at our next Ethics Roundtable

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Not consultation, just a great way to get some ideas about how to handle your sticky case. Friendly and open group.  Learn more here.

    • Fri., May 30th, 2025
    • 12:00 to 1:30 pm
    • Zoom
    • Register here.

Gina Culver, LMFTHosted by Gina Culver, LMFT. Thank you, Gina! 



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Book Review:

What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma

by Stephanie Foo

Reviewed by Gwen Watson, LMFT,

RECAMFT Director at Large, Programs Chair

Book cover: What My Bones Know by S. Foo"NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A searing memoir of reckoning and healing by acclaimed journalist Stephanie Foo, investigating the little-understood science behind complex PTSD and how it has shaped her life"

"ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Washington Post, Cosmopolitan, NPR, Mashable, She Reads, Publishers Weekly"

If you’re anything like me, you have a bookshelf of clinical books that you’ve bought with enthusiasm and optimism, and over the years have struggled to chip away at.  There are so many insightful and inspiring books by fellow therapists to read.  However, when this book was recommended to me, I decided to dog-ear the pages of my clinical books, and make space for this memoir instead.  The opportunity to read a memoir of a client’s journey through a challenging childhood, and follow her along her journey through different types of therapy felt poignant to me.  I wanted to step into the client’s perspective of the therapy journey, and pause on absorbing all the clinicians’ case studies.  

The author describes a challenging childhood, with abuse and neglect that was largely hidden from the public eye, and held up by a veil of perfectionism and high-achievement.  I’ll be honest, some of the accounts were quite activating for my nervous system to read.  Still, it was valuable to remember how our clients experience and make sense of trauma in her words, versus how a clinician might conceptualize an experience for a case study.  Reading the arc of her story supported my clinical work as much as, perhaps more, than absorbing another clinician’s perspective on how to support trauma processing.  I bore witness to how she navigated her attachment ruptures, the strategies she used to tolerate them, and the resistance she brought to her early days in therapy.  It wasn’t that the elements of her story surprised me – I’ve heard similar themes and experiences from my own clients – it’s the level of honesty and insight she shares about her inner monologue contrasting with the public facing responses.  It serves as a reminder for us clinicians that “meeting our clients where they’re at” doesn’t equate with taking their words at face value.  Foo illustrates beautifully how she intellectualized her pain, and responded to well meaning therapists by telling them what they wanted to hear instead of sharing her authentic experience.  She recounts how her early experience with therapists included “Good Will Hunting” types of therapy scenes with therapists reiterating to her that the abuse wasn’t her fault.  She would parrot the words back to them, and pretend to agree (like many of our people-pleasing “well-behaved” clients).  However, she shares, “I was a void when I said that.  A voice and a body reading facts from a leaflet.” (pg. 110).  

Stephanie writes about her experience as an adult to decide to engage in EMDR therapy, and the powerful experience she has in processing her trauma through this alternative to talk therapy.  She is skeptical at first, and doesn’t understand why it enables her to access her emotions and build profound insights, but nevertheless she leans in.  As an EMDR therapist myself, I understand her initial skepticism.  I resonated with her surprise that holding alternating buzzers in your hands allows a shift out of intellectualizing defenses and into the raw emotions you’ve been aching to release.  Reading about her first hand account of EMDR has been a gift for me as an EMDR therapist.

I’m not done with the book yet, so I won’t include any spoilers.  However, I am touched by the experience I am having as a therapist, reading this memoir and stepping into the felt experience that she has as a client.  I’m going to make more space for memoirs on my bookshelf going forward.  They offer something poignant and sacred for us as clinicians.  Even if they don’t count for CEs, I’m finding they are well worth my time.

Gwendolyn Watson, LMFTGwendolyn Watson, LMFT, has a private practice in Sebastopol, CA. She is the Programs Chair and a Director at Large on the RECAMFT Board.    

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Link to our Therapy Groups page and a PDF of current offerings - RECAMFT.ORG/Therapy-Groups

CLICK HERE to learn more about local group offerings, and payment to advertise your group. 

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Past President's Notepad

Multiple RECAMFT Past Presidents Featured in this 2 minute highlights 50th Anniversary Video

This is two minutes of pure fun. Enjoy!


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